Decisions Decisions

The life you lead today is a result of the decisions that you have made in the past. Similarly, the life you will lead in the future will be the result of the decisions you make today. Nothing has a greater impact on your destiny than the decisions you make on a day-to-day basis.

In this edition of Dare To Dream, I'd like to share with you a framework for making decisions quickly and easily. At the end of the newsletter, you'll find a step-by-step worksheet that will guide you through this decision making process.

Step 1: Define your decision

Take a moment to define the decision you are trying to make in writing. By getting your thoughts down on paper, you can often gain new insight into the situation. Remember the old saying that a problem well stated is a problem half solved.

Step 2: Identify your Real Objective

Whenever we are faced with a decision, there is usually something that we are looking to obtain. For example if you are trying to decide whether to leave your current job and go back to University to do further study, your real objective may be, 'To have a fulfilling and stimulating career'. Ask yourself, what are you really trying to obtain by making this decision?

Step 3: Write down your options

Identify each of your options and write them down on your worksheet.

Step 4: Pros and Cons analysis

For each option, list down as many pros and cons as you can think of.

Step 5: Identify the right person and ask for advice

Do you know anyone who has faced a similar decision to the one you are facing at the moment? Ideally you should try and find someone who has gone on to achieve the real objective that you are trying to obtain. Ask them for their input and advice.

Step 6: Pray and/or meditate on your decision

Praying or quiet meditation is a great way to remove the stress that can often accompany a difficult decision. Find a quiet spot where you won't be disturbed. Close your eyes and focus on your breathing. As you become more relaxed, present your decision to God or the Universal mind and ask for guidance.

Step 7: Select the option you believe has the best chance of leading you to your real objective.

Step 8: Commit to your decision by setting a date to take action and identify exactly what your first action is going to be.

To download your 'decision maker' worksheet, click on the link below:

Click here to download your Decision Maker Worksheet

Action Steps:

The next time you are faced with a decision, use the 'decision maker' worksheet to gain clarity and save time during your decision making process.